i have found that most of the methods using php that people have made are now broken (had to tweak and use multiple methods to get it working).
but php is pretty much the only way youre gonna get it done.
i wouldnt use asp. for one your host needs to support it. and only windows servers do.
its not whether its asp or php though. its how to use moosock to get it to work right. the asp/php is just for accessing and manipulating the the database. a middleman for the info youre trying to send/recieve.